with an equivalent given in retaliation, as a blow for a blow, repartee, etc.:
He answered their insults tit for tat.
Origin
1550-60; perhaps variant of earlier tip for tap
British Dictionary definitions for tit for tat
tit for tat
noun
1.
an equivalent given in return or retaliation; blow for blow
Word Origin
C16: from earlier tip for tap
Word Origin and History for tit for tat
1550s, possibly an alteration of tip for tap "blow for blow," from tip (v.3) "tap" + tap "touch lightly." Perhaps infl. by tit (n.2).
tit for tat in Culture
tit for tat definition
Giving back exactly what one receives: “If you hit me, I'll do the same to you; it's tit for tat.”
Idioms and Phrases with tit for tat
tit for tat
Repayment in kind, retaliation, as in If he won't help with the beach clean-up, I won't run a booth at the bake sale; that's tit for tat. This term is believed to be a corruption of tip for tap, which meant “a blow for a blow.” Its current form dates from the mid-1500s.